Have you ever wondered how difficult it is to move with a child? Let me tell you, from years of experience:, it’s very difficult. If you’re a first-time mover with kids, or this is your 5th time, there’s definitely something of value in here for you.
I bundled everything I could think of into these 10 tips for a smooth transition with kids. I hope you take something away from this article and implement it into your own lives!
Moving because you need more space or got a new job? Before you move, explain the move in terms your child can understand.
Be open and communicative with them. Tell them what’s going to happen, so they aren’t left feeling afraid or confused. Leaving them in the dark with no details is the worst possible thing you could do. Answer their questions as best as you can, because I’m sure they’ll have a lot.
Make the move an adventure! Your child’s fears will be soothed if you approach the move as an exciting adventure for the entire family.
Some children’s books that helped families with the transition are Berenstain Bears’ Moving Day and Goodbye House. Check out your local library for more information or scroll down to find the links to these books.
The more positive you are about the move, the more positive they will be as well. I know it’s a stressful time, but your emotions rub off on them, so staying optimistic goes a long way!
If possible, show them the new house, and let them spend some time exploring it. Make sure they understand they won’t be left behind.
Ask for their suggestions and involve them in the plans. You can even turn it into a fun, imaginative game for your child...
“The toys will go here. Your bed will be here. Look at this huge yard for you to play in.”
This will dramatically help your child picture themselves in the new house.
I can’t stress this one enough. Including your child as much as possible in the move is the biggest reason families have a smooth transition.
Make it a game! By making the moving process a game, the more likely they will be to accept and become excited about the move. Having them pack some of their own belongings, even if you have to come back and repack them later, makes them feel more included.
Also, if you don't plan on taking old toys, let your child decide which ones to keep and to give away.
On moving day, it’s best to have the children stay with a family member or trusted friend. If this isn’t possible, include them in the moving activities. For example, introduce your child to the moving company workers so they know who’s taking their belongings.
Ensure your children pack a designated box to bring along in the car, stocked with their favorite toys, stuffed animals, blankets, and other essentials. Having these items readily available upon arrival will alleviate stress for both you and them!
All hell will break loose in the new house if you can’t find Sophie’s teddy bear or Elijah’s race cars.
Clearly label boxes with your children’s belongings so they know where their things are when you arrive at the new home. This can also help them feel more in control of the situation.
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If you’re moving long-distance, plan fun pit stops along the way to break up the journey.
Plan out what attractions/amenities to see where you can stretch your legs and enjoy a new experience.
Once you’re at the new home, unpack your child’s boxes first. Making them a priority before yourself will work wonders.
Set up their room before your own.
Unpacking is chaos. So by providing them with a familiar and comfortable space, you’ll settle their worries while you unpack everything else.
Moving is stressful, there’s no denying it, but make sure to maintain composure around your child to avoid creating additional chaos.
Give your child time to adjust to their new environment. Be patient and understanding as they navigate the dramatic changes, and offer plenty of love, communication, and support along the way.
If possible, before moving, explore the neighborhood/city with them.
When moving to a new place, making friends is hard. If you can ease this transition in any way, do it. Explore parks, schools, and amenities with your child, and try to make friends as you go (for you and them).
Getting involved in the community is the best way to make friends. Attending community events, joining clubs, and Facebook groups can ease the transition for the whole family.
Life happens too fast and we forget to take it in.
Encourage your child to document the journey through drawings, photos, or their own personal journals. It will help them process their emotions and document lasting memories of this significant change in their lives.
Wishing you a smooth and safe transition!
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